Melinda's Story.
Founder Melinda Beckett-Hughes reveals her personal journey to the quiet bliss of Antalya – and how her experience shapes and informs the appeal and success of
Ayuda Retreats.
For almost three decades, I thought I had it all. As a HR consultant in the 1980s and a coach in the 1990s and 2000s, I was working at the top of my game. Business executives looked to me for support and guidance in how to change their professional performance.
And while a dramatic downturn after the 2008 financial crash changed my direction, life still seemed positive.
In 2014, with my kids grown up and flying the nest, I opened a seven-bedroom boutique B&B called Ayuda House in Cheshire, UK.
Then, in early 2020, everything happened at once.
My relationship ended. A major family crisis left me with a gaping sense of loss. My business closed down and I fell through the public grant cracks. And a community charity project I started went very wrong. I was faced with an immeasurable combination of grief and regret.
It was a brutal experience.
Over time, I realised that only through forgiveness, acceptance and gratitude could I move forward. I put Ayuda House up for sale and in lock down spent a lot of time alone and with God. I prayed, meditated, read and sought the support of wise friends, coaches and counsellors.
In September 2020, I jumped on a plane to Turkey and started to explore the possibility of a retreat house. I travelled to several towns but by the time I ended up in Side, I was smitten with the authenticity, history and geography of the area – just like you will be, too.
I gathered together every source of finance, put down my deposit on a new complex in Evrenseki, and returned to the UK to complete a house sale and start the liberating process of freeing myself from a lifetime of possessions.
The next chapter of my story promises so much. I can’t wait for you to join me.
Melinda Beckett-Hughes
A lifetime of experience
Education:
BA Modern Languages –
Bath University,
MA Counselling – Manchester University
Professional Experience:
Translator, Tour Operator,
HR Consultant, Coach,
Hospitality Owner
Memberships:
Fellow of Chartered Institute of Personnel and Development (FCIPD),
Member British Psychological Society (BPS)
International Coaching
Federation (ICF)
Qualifications:
Qualified to Level B with BPS for
psychometric assessment
Women's Coach
Certified behavioural analyst
(DISC)
Barrett Values Centre - Certified Leadership Coach - Level 2