For almost three decades, I thought I had it all. As a HR consultant in the 1980s and a coach in the 1990s and 2000s, I was working at the top of my game. Business executives looked to me for support and guidance in how to change their professional performance.
And while a dramatic downturn after the 2008 financial crash changed my direction, life still seemed positive.
In 2014, with my kids grown up and flying the nest, I opened a seven-bedroom boutique B&B called Ayuda House in Cheshire, UK.
Then, in early 2020, everything happened at once.
My relationship ended. A major family crisis left me with a gaping sense of loss. My business closed down and I fell through the public grant cracks. And a community charity project I started went very wrong. I was faced with an immeasurable combination of grief and regret.
It was a brutal experience.
Over time, I realised that only through forgiveness, acceptance and gratitude could I move forward. I put Ayuda House up for sale and in lock down spent a lot of time alone and with God. I prayed, meditated, read and sought the support of wise friends, coaches and counsellors.
In September 2020, I jumped on a plane to Turkey and started to explore the possibility of a retreat house. I travelled to several towns but by the time I ended up in Side, I was smitten with the authenticity, history and geography of the area – just like you will be, too.
I gathered together every source of finance, put down my deposit on a new complex in Evrenseki, and returned to the UK to complete a house sale and start the liberating process of freeing myself from a lifetime of possessions.
The next chapter of my story promises so much. I can’t wait for you to join me.
Melinda Beckett-Hughes
BA Modern Languages –
Bath University,
MA Counselling – Manchester University
Translator, Tour Operator,
HR Consultant, Coach,
Hospitality Owner
Fellow of Chartered Institute of Personnel and Development (FCIPD),
Member British Psychological Society (BPS)
International Coaching
Federation (ICF)
Qualified to Level B with BPS for
psychometric assessment
Women's Coach
Certified behavioural analyst
(DISC)
Barrett Values Centre - Certified Leadership Coach - Level 2
Ayuda Group Ltd
Company Number 02756474